When does anyone really start to feel or admit they are old ?
As far as I remember, in my mind as a teenager, seniors and old folks were those in their 40s.
When I was in my 20s, seniors were those in their 50s.
When I was in my 30s, seniors were those in their 60s.
When I was in my 40s, seniors were those in their 70s.
Now I have reached 50, seniors are those in their 80s.
There seem to me a 30 years age gap before one would accept being ‘old’.
(This is one person’s viewpoint.)
Age is so much in the mind and as long as one’s mind is well and active, not many would feel as old as the numbers bestowed on them.
The body grows old with age so the number relates more to the body than the mind.
A 50 year old body may only have a 30 year old mind.
Birthday candles sometimes stop at 21 or some may keep going till they reached 30.
When one reached 40, more often than not, the candles on their cake may be reduced to only 1 instead of 4 (representing 40).
Perhaps if I live up to 80, I may accept being labelled the ‘old lady’ or would my mind then only look at those older folks who live well up to a 100 as the true oldies?
How many of us would live up to a 100 and would many really want that longevity?
As per statistic New Zealand, based on death rates in New Zealand in 2010โ12:
- Life expectancy at birth is 83.0 years for females and 79.3 years for males.
As per statistic Malaysia, 2013
- Life expectancy at birth is 77.2 years for females and 72.6 years for males.
From these figures, it appears that I may not even accept being old till my last days.
That’s my random thoughts tonight.
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Inspired by Robin Yousef: Oh dear – it isn’t easy getting old gracefullyย an article published in NZ Herald.
This submission is for Daily Prompt: Ripped from the Headlines
Photographers, artists, poets: show us a CURRENT EVENT.
I am selective on the articles I read and to me,
aging is a CURRENT EVENT – LIFE & STYLE.
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One word of advice, eat healthy, don’t worry, be happy.
Keep your body as young as your mind.
Smile and don’t frown.
Oooops, I thought I said ONE word of advice but
that’s a mouthful.
Goodnight and sweet dreams.
Related articles
Department of Statistic Malaysia
NZ Herald Article dated 13 Jan 2014 – Oh dear – it isn’t easy getting old gracefully
Littlegirlstory article on ‘Aging gracefully – what it means to you’
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Aging is mostly in the mind , keep your mind active and live and eat healthily
Thank you for confirming my thoughts, Paul.
Im still aspring chicken at 61 trying to fugure out what I want to be when I grow up.
Haaaa.,,aaa that’s really awesome to have an ambition in your prime years. Keep going and go for it. You are only a spring chicken. ๐
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Aging is indeed a current event – well said. Thanks for your thoughts!
Thank you for your comments. Indeed it is and i believe as years go by, the topic on aging will reach even a bigger segment of the population as people get more and more conscious of their youth from a much younger age. ๐
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I stopped blowing out birthday candles when I was a teenager. I always thought, “Too old for this”. But in all honesty, every day I tell myself, “I will always, ALWAYS be 12 at heart.” I do act like a kid sometimes, bouncing around with lots of energy and people stare. But so what? Never too old to be young ๐
You are still a baby, sweet, cute and bouncy, Mabel. Remember my formula, take 30 years off (or that percentage) what’s left is your real age. Enjoy life!! Yes so what? ๐
When I was an adolescent, I thought my 30-year-old cousin old. Now that I am 51, folks think I am young so growing old gracefully is truly possible. ๐
You are indeed a true example of ‘growing old gracefully’. That photo of you doesn’t look a year older than 30, Sweetie. ๐
That was taken when I was 49. ๐ Kids think I am younger than their moms. ๐
You sure look very young and fit!! ๐
Thanks! I shall enjoy preening. ๐